I wonder what it is about when you don’t have children that make people look at you as if you are irresponsible and most definitely may not know about bringing up a child or caring for one. Others are so insensitive they say this to your face. What makes a mother? Is it by the number of children you have? The quality of life you give them or pure grace given by God to every woman?
I believe a woman is born with intricate skills to nurture, thus whether you want children or not if you have been trying to have children with no success yet, the moment a baby is placed in your arm, those mother skills play up and you become a mother instantly. Don’t tell anyone they do not have the skills, because if it is your first or 11th child you learn everyday at being a mother.